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"I Don't Have to Do This By Myself Anymore" with Dr. Girsea Martinez

Dissertation

What if the biggest breakthrough in your dissertation journey had nothing to do with writing—and everything to do with finally asking for help? In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Girsea Martinez get real about the grief, guilt, and pressure that can derail your academic progress. They unpack what it means to carry personal loss while collecting data, why rewriting can feel like reliving trauma, and how community became the turning point that changed everything. If you've been silently struggling, convinced you have to figure it out alone—this episode will remind you that you don't. Girsea Martinez (she/they) https://www.linkedin.com/in/girsea Girsea on LinkedIn and IG